Time spent together. A treasure is time spent together

Notepad to be filled in together. Wow! Together! You can fill out notepad pages with friends, or you can with someone alone. Invite friends, colleagues, relatives, classmates, or the whole family to join you. With this notebook you will become even closer to each other.

Four hands, two heads, one notepad. Now relax and have fun. Discuss. Listen to each other. Record memories and ideas. Complete notes with sketches or clippings from magazines. Give yourself an unforgettable time.

OK, MYTH, how to fill this notebook?

You can write with ballpoint pens. But why not add some color? Get some colored pencils and markers. Find a box of multi-colored gel pens. Share your pencils and pens with each other.

And still do not interfere with a teapot with fragrant tea and a couple of mugs. And sweet!

There are no rules and correct answers. Open the notebook at random and use the prompts in the book to write down any (albeit ridiculous or funny) thoughts or pleasant memories that come to your mind. Discuss them together. Or draw something together. Silence, when everything is clear without words, what could be better, isn't it?

At the top of most pages there is a form (I: __ You: __ We: __), where you need to enter your names. In the line “We” tell us how you met, or think of a nickname for you: “amigos”, “megacreators” or “a team of cake lovers”. - Illustration from a notebook

Each page is designed to fill it together. It is you and someone else. Of course, you can fill out a book with one special person, but if you want to make a holiday gift copy with a company of people you like, write a list of their names and then cross them out.

Grab an armful of the first buddy on the list - and go! - Illustration from a book

Notepad for you and ...

... for bosom friends:  carry the book in your bag and fill out the page whenever you see each other. Imagine how quickly you can handle the whole book!

... for the whole family:  Take the book with you to your next family meeting. Ask relatives to pair up and fill out the page together. You will get a one-of-a-kind (and maybe funny!) Book about your family.

... for a loved one: put the book on the table next to the bed and before going to bed write down the impressions of your life together.

…for traveling:  put the book in the backpack. Keep it as a diary: someday it will help you remember your friends or pass the time on your next trip.

Will we try?

It is proved that when two spend time thinking about their past and future lives together, their relationship strengthens, becomes warmer, closer and more interesting.

The main thing is to approach this creatively. - Illustration from a book

For example, try to answer the following questions:

1. If the genie allowed us to make three wishes, we would have guessed ...
2. The last time we were absolutely delighted ...
3. We would like to change the world so ...
4. I would describe you to a stranger like that ...
5. What do people think when they see us together ...
6. How we directed each other in the right direction ...
7. What happened in our country ...
8. Places where we had the most fun together ...
9. Our magic tool to make things better ...
10. Questions about life and love that concern us right now ...

Gift to ourselves

Having filled all the pages of the book together, pack it as a gift, stick a piece of paper with the inscription "Do not watch for one year." And hide in a closet or under the bed. Done!

After 12 months, open this “time machine” and enjoy magical memories. -

Be creative. Look at each other from a new angle. Hear each other. And have fun to the fullest. Here's what you can do with the notebook "I, You, We." Your life will not be the same. Try it - you will like it.

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Many of us devote too much time to love affairs, and this can cause many problems. Many sacrifice their studies or work in order to see their lover as much as possible to spend time with him. But this position does harm, first and foremost. Do not drop out of school or skip classes, ask for time before work, or not attend it at all just because you are in love and think about your beloved every minute.

Perhaps the best option for a relationship is quality, not quantity. If the couple in love spends together all day, then the next day they will remember the pleasant moments of the previous day. In principle, it should be so. So, time spent together in a hurry will bring you even more anguish. Therefore, it is not necessary to constantly try to break out at least for a minute to see each other, it will be more important to meet in your free time and spend the whole day together, rather than snatch short moments.

There is an opinion that if you spend too much time together, you can lose your personality. Constant spending time in the company of one person, even if you are self-proud, can contribute to your isolation in communication with other people. In addition, getting used to doing everything together, you simply can’t endure loneliness and do any work on your own, you will want to see your lover nearby to help you. Therefore, you will become very dependent on your soulmate. This is not to say that such a relationship is very bad and unstable, just once, when your beloved refuses to help you in anything or fails to pay due attention, as it was before, you will doubt his love for you.

In a word, too frequent communication can harm you. And how to avoid all this?

The second thing you must do is decide for yourself whether you want a real relationship in which you both will develop as a person. It is necessary to solve with the beloved questions about the affairs that you will be left to do together and which should be divided.

No need to put an end to their hobbies, studies, work. Continue to do your own business and give freedom to your loved one. If you are strongly attached to each other, then this will put both on a chain. But remember, each person should have his own personal time, and even your lover, who has the right to spend it not swami.

Another issue in the relationship that has begun is how to spend time together.

Whether you are a married couple or commoners who have just begun to meet, one way or another the question arises of a joint pastime and most importantly, to spend it with benefit. Just as in a relationship, in a joint holiday, the main thing is quality, not quantity. Someone in reserve has a whole bunch of free time, and someone only has a few hours, but this should not affect the quality of rest.

First of all, you need to choose the days on which you will be as free as possible, so as to take time for joint rest and entertainment and choose what you will do.

Nowadays, movie advents are gaining more and more popularity. Such a rest will help you both relax and have fun watching the exciting plot of the film. It can be a romantic comedy, a dramatic action movie, or an exciting horror movie, the main thing is that the picture you choose matches the tastes of both lovers, then it will be a pleasant pastime.

It would be nice to visit a cafe or restaurant at least once a week, depending on the partner’s financial capabilities. A romantic setting, wine or champagne, delicious snacks will bring a variety to your relationship and allow you to relax and have a heart-to-heart talk.

No less important are walks in the fresh air, whether it be a park, square or just the streets of a night city. Such a vacation is romantic in its own way. Such walks can be diversified by roller skating, cycling. Many people like to visit parks and ride various attractions. It is very exciting and unforgettable. You will still have long to recall such entertainment and, of course, want to repeat it, more than once.

In the summer, your beach can become your relaxing environment. There is nothing better than lying down together on a warm sand and diving into a cool little water. If your city does not have places for swimming, you can go to the pool. Of course, the pool does not replace outdoor recreation, but allows you to spend time together.

For some reason, shopping trips are always considered only a female occupation. But why not take your beloved with you, if he certainly does not mind? Moreover, it is not necessary to buy something for yourself, give your beloved a surprise and choose something for him. Tolkone should go shopping for a long time, a man, if he doesn’t show that it is boring, he will probably think and will have a long rest from such a long rest.

Do not forget about the rest with friends. Men are very important to communicate with someone other than you. Invite your friends as well. Together you can go to the countryside, fry kebabs, and chat in plenty.

If you are already familiar with his parents and introduced your young man to your own, then it would be nice to visit them, go or visit them. You can arrange a small family dinner where you can get to know better, perhaps with future father-in-law and mother-in-law and mother-in-law and father-in-law. In addition, if your partner has a younger sister, then you can take them with you to rest in the countryside or in the park. It will diversify your entertainments and strengthen relations with future relatives, perhaps it will help to imagine how you will walk in the future with your children.

I would like to remind once again that the main thing in relations is not to overdo it. You don’t have to get hung up on only one subject of love, because if everything goes well, you’ll still be together all the time and get tired of each other. And most importantly, do not forget about entertainments and joint rest, which will help to diversify your relationship and prevent you from getting bored with each other.

First, they are head over heels in love with each other. The couple walks through the park, devouring each other's eyes, watching their favorite films for hours on end, throwing popcorn or kissing at the entrance. Any action of half excites and excites the blood! It seems that it will always be so ...

Well, then time passes, passions cool down, they are replaced by everyday life with its eternal problems. Suddenly, relations become fresh and routine, time spent together ceases to be a holiday. Events, meetings, trips - all this no longer gives joy. Can romance and laughter be brought back into relationships? Here are 10 ways to help you say no to family melancholy.

1. Arrange a puzzle adventure for your partner

Prepare five or more cards on which to scatter a wide variety of activities - from joint visits to spas or wine tasting in another city to a hot bath by candlelight and night walks by the moon. Unfold the "adventures" by envelopes and give your partner the opportunity to guess what you have to do tonight. Unknown even a banal event turns into a real holiday!

2. Get creative

If your half loves to be photographed, it's time to go around the city with a camera in hand. Just turn a regular photo shoot into non-standard entertainment! For example, choose only dance poses, take pictures with funny strangers, or recreate your version of your favorite movie within the city. Believe me, you will have something to laugh at!

3. Turn into designers

What helps to truly get closer to a partner? Teamwork! Only it should really be fun. Try to turn into designers and do your own interior. For example, manually build a tea table out of nothing, make a frame for a photograph or paint a boring wall in the living room. At first it will seem difficult, but then you get involved ...

4. Meet the dawn on bicycles

How long have you been watching sunset or sunrise together? Why not throw a thermos of coffee, a couple of buns into your backpack, and then embark on a little adventure? Rent rollers, bicycles, anything! Be sure you will remember this morning.

5. Give gifts competition

Not only joint outings on nature, but also mutual surprises will help to recall your feelings. What could be more interesting than going out to hunt the market for gifts for each other? Music CDs, books, jewelry, funny socks, delicious food - anything! There is only one condition: you have an hour to search, the partner makes purchases separately from you, after which you exchange your “treasures”.

6. Prepare incriminating questions

There is nothing sexier than recognizing a partner from a new and unexpected side. How about compromising questions that will lead your loved one to a dead end, and which you can answer with equally interesting questions to you? Anything from his first erotic fantasies to her thoughts during that same kiss.

7. Buy tickets to the amusement park

Well, who said that carousels or bright water slides are designed only for children? Go together to the room of crooked mirrors, lose all small money on the dash, enjoy the lights of the rides, eating sticky cotton candy, feel like schoolchildren on a first date. At least pleasant memories are guaranteed!

8. Sign up for a master class together

This can be a lesson in classical ballroom dancing, masterpieces of Italian cuisine or French courses. Be that as it may, joint training in something new and useful will save you from everyday routine, give you the opportunity to bring something extraordinary and exciting to family life.

9. Arrange a sortie of "urban nomads"

How well do you know your city? You can answer this question by going for reconnaissance in the most remote areas of your city. Not only abandoned mines or quarries, but also quite inhabited streets, which you simply could not reach before. For example, museums and parks in which, by coincidence, you have not been to.

10. Ride a boat or boat

And of course, one of the most romantic activities is a trip to the lake or river, where you can not only go for a boat ride, but also rent a catamaran or boat. Just imagine a quiet evening, a fresh breeze, the magical beauty of sunset and your loved one nearby. You can chat about the eternal, fool around, read poetry to each other, you will be in the zone of inaccessibility for all worldly concerns!

You can also play chess, collect amazing collages from your favorite photos together, sing a duet in karaoke, sculpt sushi or ride horses. There are so many opportunities to bring color to everyday life! The main thing is to want.

What have you always wanted to do together? Make a romantic date with champagne in the pool, massage and declarations of love? Or go down under water together? Jump with a parachute, ride a sleigh, fly in an aero-tube? Give yourself the pleasure of spending time with your loved one in the most beautiful and incredible way for both of you.

Double pleasures

• SPA therapy session for two;
• Horse riding;
• A romantic date in the bath complex (jacuzzi, sauna, pool);
• Professional photo shoot;
• Dance master class;
• Sledging;
• Zorbing (have you ever ridden in a soap bubble?);
• Skating;
• Pair massage session;
• Visiting a beauty salon;
• Diving;
• Yoga lesson;
• Paragliding;
• Aquabike racing
• Squash game;
• Flying in a wind tunnel;
• Walk on a Segway;
• Ballet visit;
• Romantic dinner for two;
• Show tasting coffee;
• Skydiving;
• Motosnowboarding workshop.

Time spent together is priceless

Buying and choosing an experience is just an excuse to remind yourself how precious this relationship is to you. How nice it is every time to see the eyes of a loved one, the smile on his face and hear his cheerful laughter. This is an opportunity to please each other and do something mutually pleasant together.

Do I need a reason?

• Memorable date: whether it’s the anniversary of your acquaintance or your engagement - it’s definitely worth celebrating together!
• Birthday of a loved one: the desire to fulfill his romantic desires will cause not just joy, but a surge of the warmest feelings;
• Feat: completion of a difficult transaction, graduation, purchase of an apartment - all important events should be noted with a good rest.

In general, of course, the real crazy lovers do not need reasons for joint joys.

And how to arrange everything

In order to use one of the certificates, you just need to call the phone number indicated on it and choose a day convenient for you.

1. Have a youtube party: stock up on popcorn and show each other your favorite videos.
2. Take a ride on the water bus.
3. Play a board game from your childhood - dominoes or Snakes and Stairs.
4. Write an essay on the topic “How We Spent the Summer” (and do not show it to your grandmothers. Never).
5. Feed the ducks and swans in the pond.
6. Take a bike ride to places that are especially dear to you. Show each other where your "place of power" is in this city.
7. Sign up for a martial arts training session and spar between each other.
8. Give each other a massage according to the classic instructions for massage therapists.
9. Buy potted plants and transplant them together.
10. Arrange a photo shoot for each other.
11. Prepare something that is never enough time. Homemade dumplings, for example.
12. Stage your supposedly first date. Imagine that you just met. (A great occasion to buy a new dress, by the way)
13. Take a beautiful selfie, put it on facebook and ask subscribers what famous couple you look like. Read, argue and have fun.
14. Make a romantic clip about you. Just on the phone.
15. Take a tent and go camping for the weekend.
16. Take a walk with the dog. If you don’t have one, you can help volunteers from a dog shelter or just grandmother from a neighboring apartment.
17. Read your favorite role books.
18. Make a dish together that you both have never tasted.
19. 19. Buy a map of your city and pretend you are a tourist. Try to get lost and look for the desired route on the map.
20. Disassemble the cabinets and decide which things to give to those in need and which to throw away. Agree in advance not to encroach on the sacred - for example, on your favorite kindergarten dress and on his marsh boots with a patch.
21. Restore any old thing - grandmother's chair, for example. Draw your initials in a secluded place.
22. Go to the store and try on things that you would never buy for yourself.
23. Watch a horror movie and then boil cocoa, turn off the lights and tell each other scary stories about the Black Hand and the Coffin on the Wheels
24. Paint each other with body art paints.
25. Build something. A flower bed, a sandbox or a house for a cat.
26. Organize your childhood computer games tournament. Whose Mario will collect more coins?
27. Assemble a puzzle of 5000 pieces (before that, stock up on sandwiches and drive out the cat's room).
28. Go fishing. Remember to grab the bowler hat.
29. Sign up for dancing and go there together.
30. Help someone. Save a homeless kitten or take a package of toys to an orphanage.
31. Go to the rock festival. Put on stupid musician T-shirts and imagine you're 15 years old and have first love.
32. Do it yourself do-it-yourself repairs in the room.
33. Have a classic picnic — with baskets, a checkered tablecloth and champagne in glass goblets.
34. Go for a walk and meet someone. Just. A great way to find new mutual friends.
35. Meet the dawn and sunset together.
36. Review together some famous movie and come up with a sequel that you would like to make.
37. Play billiards. On desire.
38. Sing a duet in karaoke.
39. Go rollerblading around the most beautiful park in your city.
40. Go to the forest for berries or mushrooms.

    
    

41. Try Sign Language Only All Day
42. Buy a ticket to the dolphinarium and swim with the dolphins
43. Play pastry chefs. Bake a cake and decorate it together
44. Buy a paper lantern, make a wish and launch it into the sky
45. Have an evening of childhood memories and tell each other the Terrible Secrets about your mother’s beloved vase, smashed by the exact hit of the ball.
46. Bake fortune cookies. The crazier the predictions, the more fun.
47. Have a street workshop. Teach everyone to make bird feeders, for example.
48. Rent a canoe and try to swim to the middle of the pond without falling into the water.
49. Buy the most delicious alcohol and make each other cocktails according to your own recipe.
50. Pumpkin halloween scary.
51. Write a funny song on the motive of some solid hit such as "Moscow Evenings"
52. Have breakfast in bed.
53. Go to the zoo and be sure to buy yourself cotton candy.
54. Launch a kite. It is not at all as simple as it seems.
55. Sign up for a role-playing game and turn into your favorite heroes.
56. Go to the water park and ride along with the most terrible slides.
57. Spend the whole day in the amusement park.
58. Hire an ATV or snowmobile and set off to conquer the terrain.
59. Buy lottery tickets and watch together what numbers appear on the screen.
60. Play cards not for interest, bet some serious prize on the line.

    
    

61. Decorate the apartment for some holiday.
62. Go horseback riding through the woods.
63. Take a ride around the city late at night.
64. Play a naval battle and a bulldozer. Surely on leaflets in a box, as in childhood.
65. Have a cinematic marathon. Show each other the most important films.
66. Go to soccer. Well, or any other game where you can root for the team loudly.
67. Go to the flea market and look for things that you had in your childhood there.
68. Take some serious psychological tests together.
69. Make a bet. The harder it is to win the argument, the more fun.
70. Rent a hotel room and stay only for a couple of days.
71. Make a list of entertainment for the year ahead. You will definitely want to do something right now.
72. Embark on a journey through a country or city that is not very popular with tourists. There you will not be distracted by the typical entertainment for vacationers.
73. Go to the racetrack and put money on different horses. Cheer and win.
74. Collect the puzzle.
75. Have a psychoanalysis session and tell each other about your phobias.
76. Draw a family tree.
77. Go to the cottage and plant an apple tree.
78. Get out your baby photos and have an evening of memories.
79. Cook the jam, pour it into small jars and stick the labels with your names on them. Give jam to friends.
80. Try to draw portraits of each other.

    
    

81. Write a letter to the future. Imagine yourself in 10 years - what do you want to tell yourself?
82. Go in for sports together. A pool or ice rink is best.
83. Choose some unusual museum and go there early in the morning when nobody is there.
84. Come up with a theme week. Culinary, dance, cinematic - what do you like more. Devote every evening to this activity.
85. Arrange a competition. Who faster mixes a cocktail or who funniest writes a poem on a given topic?
86. Take a chance! Skydive or fly in a balloon.
87. Call your loved ones for a family dinner and get ready for it together.
88. Start learning a foreign language together.
89. Write a picture that you would like to hang in the bedroom. There are many drawing workshops online.
90. Go to the spa together.
91. Choose any room in the house and do a complete rearrangement there.
92. Write down your plans for a future life together.
93. Rent a telescope and try to find all the constellations that you know.
94. Take a foam bath together.
95. Read the same book and share your impressions.
96. Go to the village and try on a completely different life. Try to milk the cow, melt the stove and wake up with roosters.
97. Go to the store and buy gifts for each other. Just.
98. Poke anywhere on the map near your city and go there by car. There is definitely something interesting there. Well, or impassable.
99. Dream out loud. What would you guess if you could find a magic genie lamp?
100. Have sex. Not as usual, but as you have not tried.